Comments on: A Childfree Open Letter… From Heartless Bitches International http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/ The Interests of a Childfree Brit Living in Toronto Fri, 09 Jan 2009 22:50:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Britgirl http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8533 Britgirl Fri, 24 Aug 2007 01:14:20 +0000 http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8533 I thought you'd enjoy it. Each time I read it I like it more. Blonde - go for it! RMS - "I believe the hostility they express to us is what they really feel for themselves on a level so deep they can’t admit it..." I think that's very true. And what a pity, because they'd feel so much better if they weren't so hostile and raging at us. I thought you’d enjoy it. Each time I read it I like it more.
Blonde - go for it!
RMS - “I believe the hostility they express to us is what they really feel for themselves on a level so deep they can’t admit it…”
I think that’s very true. And what a pity, because they’d feel so much better if they weren’t so hostile and raging at us.

]]> By: RMS http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8528 RMS Fri, 24 Aug 2007 00:26:39 +0000 http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8528 That was fabulous, thank you for sharing, Britgirl! "Could it be that you, in fact, are the one seething with bitterness and resentment? " To me, this sentence typifies the very essence of what I believe is the reason for breeders' (not parents) extreme reactions. It's sad that they seem to think that expressing any kind of disappointment or fatigue with being a parent is somehow disloyal and so instead of rightly expressing their actual feelings, they suppress it and express it as rage at us. There is an idea that we are mirrors to each other, that what we express to others is what we see in ourselves. For breeders expressing this hostility, I think it is very true. I believe the hostility they express to us is what they really feel for themselves on a level so deep they can't admit it. That was fabulous, thank you for sharing, Britgirl!

“Could it be that you, in fact, are the one seething with bitterness and resentment? ”

To me, this sentence typifies the very essence of what I believe is the reason for breeders’ (not parents) extreme reactions. It’s sad that they seem to think that expressing any kind of disappointment or fatigue with being a parent is somehow disloyal and so instead of rightly expressing their actual feelings, they suppress it and express it as rage at us.

There is an idea that we are mirrors to each other, that what we express to others is what we see in ourselves. For breeders expressing this hostility, I think it is very true. I believe the hostility they express to us is what they really feel for themselves on a level so deep they can’t admit it.

]]> By: Explosive Bombchelle http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8521 Explosive Bombchelle Thu, 23 Aug 2007 20:56:11 +0000 http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8521 Thanks for sharing this letter... I love it and am trying to figure out one to write of my own that aligns with the bashing I get that is more, er, passive aggressive and those delivering don't even recognize how vengeful they are. Thanks for sharing this letter… I love it and am trying to figure out one to write of my own that aligns with the bashing I get that is more, er, passive aggressive and those delivering don’t even recognize how vengeful they are.

]]> By: mercurior http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8488 mercurior Thu, 23 Aug 2007 07:29:00 +0000 http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8488 fun isnt it feh ;-)...i enjoy it.. fun isnt it feh ;-)…i enjoy it..

]]> By: Feh http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8463 Feh Wed, 22 Aug 2007 17:48:48 +0000 http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8463 Trolls are like natures pressure relief. They storm into a "safe" space and spew their unintelligible bile, and then folks like me get to rip them a virtual new one, allowing me to get through the rest of my day without ripping an actual person's head off. Trolls are like natures pressure relief. They storm into a “safe” space and spew their unintelligible bile, and then folks like me get to rip them a virtual new one, allowing me to get through the rest of my day without ripping an actual person’s head off.

]]> By: mercurior http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8437 mercurior Wed, 22 Aug 2007 07:32:46 +0000 http://thebritgirl.com/2007/08/22/a-childfree-open-letter-from-heartless-bitches-international/#comment-8437 i like to bash the trolls ;-)... but only if they start first.. then i rip into them ;-) repeatedly, and with malicious forethought LOL i like to bash the trolls ;-)… but only if they start first..

then i rip into them ;-) repeatedly, and with malicious forethought LOL

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