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Back to the 40 reasons to have kids…how’s this for a reason?

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Sorry, the above was supposed to go as a reply to boxermom.

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CFOverseas October 5, 2009 at 8:24 am

Hi,

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CFOverseas! Wow! Yay! Brilliant!

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I think as more and more media outlets have consolidated, the cultural message illegal payday loans to arkansas residents is propagated and owned by a handful of people who have the power to promote “norms” poor credit mortgage loans that reflect their idiosyncratic world view. Fox News in the U.S. is a prime example poor credit mortgage loans. When you represent the other voice or other voices history of payday loans you have to speak up more often and a little louder to be heard.

Re: Like It Is, I am often astounded by how much BritGirl produces while illegal payday loans to arkansas residents working full-time and having a life. She’s not getting get cash advance online paid to provide us with a service and she doesn’t control how people respond to what she writes illegal payday loans to arkansas residents. We are all guests here. We’re not perfect, but I think most regulars try to be honest poor credit mortgage loans and supportive. If some come here and want more dialogue and discussion (it seems like there is always cashloans plenty to me–and BG modified board functionality to encourage quick payday loans in South Dakota it) then they need to help create it and respond when someone engages them. In my experience, you usually get cash advance online get what you give. If you don’t care for the vibe, no need to be rude–just move along now.

Britgirl October 12, 2009 at 10:27 pm

@ Lee… plus having a side business as well, in effort to eventually cheapest payday loans lender wean self from cubicle nation ;) And thanks.

december_clouds October 6, 2009 at 5:23 am

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Good reasons?

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CFOverseas October 7, 2009 at 10:17 am

Thanks Lee, always nice to be appreciated ;) !!

Miss Q October 9, 2009 at 11:17 am

“You get to listen to children’s choirs several times history of payday loans a year.”

I thought this was supposed to be a list of reasons to HAVE kids?

Josh October 9, 2009 at 2:05 pm

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Lee October 14, 2009 at 6:06 pm

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Lee October 14, 2009 at 6:07 pm

You’re welcome CFOverseas! :)

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